Toxic who, Me?

Have you ever asked God to remove all the toxic people out of your life… but low key, God is looking back at you like,🤔? sis. Its you. You’re toxic.
I think identifying the toxic traits within ourselves allows us to recognize our triggers and encourages our healing.
I mean lets face it. It’s easier to move forward in your own growth when you’re consistently evaluating yourself. Right?
Ask yourself:

What am I doing that could potentially lead this situation downhill?

How am I acting/responding that could lead this conversation into a deeper argument?
What am I encouraging when I gossip to someone else about a friend?
How am I the PROBLEM?
Instead of me listing typical toxic behaviors, I just want to encourage you to do some self-evaluating.
One of my favorite tools is doing a self “SWOT” analysis. Write down ways that you are “S”trong (some of the strong characteristics about you), “W”eak (things you could improve on), the “O”pportunities you have (jobs, relationships) and any “T”hreats against you (financial, environment, etc.) Lets take a step back in order to move forward in self-improvement and healing by doing the inner work with ourselves.
You got this! I believe in you.

Sending love to you always, ♥️
xo.